no matter what it's like right now.
Every single relationship you have is a reflection of how you feel inside about you. You are a magnet attracting to you all things, via the signal you are emitting through your thoughts and feelings. Every relationship you have and every interaction with every person, is a reflection of your own thoughts and feelings in that very moment.
To transform every single relationship you have in your life:
- Fall in love with YOU!
(you must love yourself deeply).
- Make lists of hundreds and hundreds of wonderful things about you. Keep adding to it every day.
- Know that you are perfect.
(do not think any negative thoughts about you).
- Know that you are worthy and deserving of anything and everything you could possibly want in your life.
- Focus on the wonderful things in every person. Look for only those things.
- Do not blame or criticize anybody, ever.
- Set an intention that you are going to see the best in everything and everyone.
- Make your happiness the number one thing in your life.
(Happiness is an inside job.)
- Free yourself of the responsibility of trying to make other people happy
(respect and love them enough to allow them to take care of their own happiness).
- Get your attention off those things in others that don't make you feel good.
- Appreciate and love yourself in every moment you can.
- Do not expect others to behave in a way you want, so you will be happy. Release yourself forevermore and know that you alone control your happiness and it is a choice, no matter what anyone else is doing.
- Love and respect yourself completely.
- Know that you are PERFECT right now.
Source: Message from the LOA mailing list.